“So, how will you get into college?” If you’re a homeschooling high schooler, you’ve heard that question. I did, and it worried me. Now that I've been accepted to college, I’ve learned the answer is: “Just like everyone else.” Homeschoolers have the same rate of acceptance as brick-and-mortar school students, and there generally aren’t any application requirement differences for homeschoolers. Nevertheless, the process will inevitably feel different sometimes.
“The only thing in his sock drawer is a sandwich!” my brother said as he frantically prepared for school one morning. It was Holy Week, and he was looking for socks. He couldn’t find any in his dresser, so my mom told him to look in his brother’s drawers. He found only a sandwich, forgotten by our exhausted brother one night after services. We were trying to juggle the demanding work of private school with the many services we had during that week.
As with almost everything else, there is a wide spectrum of opinions on headcoverings in the Church–where and when they should be worn, when girls should start wearing them, and why (or why not) they should be worn. Regardless of your opinions on headcoverings, if you have ever tried to wear one while wrangling children (or watched someone wear one while wrangling children!), you know that they can be difficult to keep in place. Between children tugging on the ends or trying to play peekaboo (just my toddler?) and the combined heat of a scarf and a little one, scarves can become a downright nuisance!
Here, I’ve collected six alternatives to the standard single loop or knot-under-the-chin styles. If you struggle with keeping your headscarf in place, or you’re interested in starting to cover your head, hopefully these methods will keep you cool as a cucumber (both literally and figuratively) during services.
A few months ago, I wrote about common homeschooling myths. Now, I want to talk about the homeschooling reality, specifically, why we really homeschool.
When I was growing up, I really, really wanted to be a detective. I spent a lot of time (when I wasn’t reading mysteries) inventing mysteries for myself to solve in our backyard (I always cracked the case!). Now as an adult, I feel like I really am a gumshoe, at least in one respect: I am constantly on the case, hunting for books worth sharing with others! Here, I am going to share the results of my sleuthing over the course of the past year, as well as the books that I’m most looking forward to investigating in 2024!
Saint Emmelia Ministries is pleased to give our support to this initiative, born out of our Saint Macrina Lecture on Homesteading.
“The Unfading Rose” is a discussion group for Orthodox Christians interested in homesteading, farming, grappling with technology, and the Benedict Option, who are aspiring to rediscover a balanced life centered on sacraments and nature.
What would it look like to raise our families in a life centered on sacramental worship, classical values, art, leisure, agriculture, and the natural rhythms of the earth?
How can we successfully balance our faith and goals with modern entertainment, screens, artificial intelligence, and technologies?
What ancient wisdom can our Church offer us today in our age of over-stimulation, frenzied rush, and rapidly declining morals?
Is it realistic and possible to rediscover authentic leisure and community in our anti-culture society?
What are practical ways to maintain a homestead, unplug from worldliness, and get off the grid?
These and similar questions will be the theme of our monthly meetings. Our hope is that these open discussions generate thought and ideas in an increasingly confusing world. Few generations have faced such challenges in discerning how to be “in the world, not of the world,” and to follow St. Paul’s injunction: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Nevertheless, the Holy Spirit continues to preserve the faithful and we are hope-filled that, together, we can walk in Christ’s light.
Fr. Peter Kavanaugh is the priest at St. Benedict Orthodox Church, and started the Ave Maria Farm in northern Texas. He began farming while living at the Holy Monastery of St. Dionysius in Litohoro, Greece, and has ever since pursued his passion to work the soil. Together, he, his wife and four children, and the local community are cultivating a life at their farm, with a small herd of cattle, sheep, goats, chickens, rabbits, and Bonita, the family donkey. They have also built a quaint chapel and three tiny homes on the farm to provide a wholesome living experience for young adults enjoying either a gap year or studying at college, or for those just along for the adventure who want to start their adult life on a solid foundation, experience community, and learn basic farming skills.
We have chosen to call this project the “Unfading Rose.” This has a double meaning. First, it honors and seeks the protection of the Most Holy Theotokos, Mother of Life. Second, it recalls the heart and the beauty of the lifestyle in harmony with Church and Nature. This life, regardless of the times in which we live, never wilts and nor loses its sweet fragrance. May God lead us!
Join in the dialogue! Register here: bit.ly/unfadingrose
Three years ago I moved to Goldendale from Wenatchee. Many things changed for me then, and one of them was that I was now minutes away from a large women’s monastery. Many of the Orthodox families in the area attend monastery services to be with family, soak up the grace, or simply because they live closer to it than to a regular parish. Although I attend the mission in town, I still visit the monastery often to assist the sisters with their work, and it has been highly beneficial. My and my parents’ plan was to make visiting the monastery part of my education. And I have been learning a lot–it almost feels like a type of home economics course. I’ve discovered how to chop the perfect size of lettuce and how to fold fitted sheets (yes, it’s possible). However, my education and learning is not the only thing that’s flourishing–let’s not forget that this is a monastery!
Every student–whether public schooled, private schooled, or homeschooled–has routines, priorities, and expectations. Attending a public or private school requires schedules and routines to fit the mold of their calendar and requirements, while homeschooling allows the space and flexibility to focus priorities on God, His Church, and family, while still fulfilling state requirements for homeschooling. Being a homeschooler has allowed me to participate in and experience the life of the Church in ways I otherwise would not have been a part of.
Despite homeschooling’s meteoric rise in the past few years, many myths about homeschooling persist in mainstream thought. In some ways, perhaps the myths have only grown, as many families were introduced to a very particular, narrow version of schooling at home during the COVID-19 pandemic. In reality, homeschooling is a varied and multi-faceted little universe!
Whether you’re hesitant about homeschooling or are a homeschooler who isn’t sure how to respond to these myths, we hope that the following facts give you new insights to this beautiful journey!
I made the unusual switch from public school to homeschool for high school. Typically, many teens decide to do the vise-versa, wanting a “normal high school experience.” There seems to be this common belief that you can’t have a standard and exciting education when you’re homeschooled. I’m here to talk about why I switched and how such stereotypes terrified me at first.
Two years ago, I made the decision to leave public school to pursue a classical homeschool education. This was a difficult, but ultimately extremely edifying process. I chose the online homeschooling route: taking classes with online Christian academies. I was very unsure of what to expect when I first began this journey, so I hope this article will offer some clarity and encouragement to those exploring homeschooling, specifically the online option. I will elaborate on the reasoning behind my switch to classical homeschooling, the Orthodox homeschool pedagogy, and its effect on my spiritual life.
In the Prologue of Ochrid, St. Nikolai tells a story of a monk talking to St. Arsenius about reading the Holy Scriptures. If you want to read the whole story, you can find it in the reflections for May 8th. The exhortation given by St. Arsenius to the monk is to “just read.”
The centrality of our educational philosophy parallels the ethos of this same idea. While the exchange centered on the power of scriptures despite our lack of understanding, it has a similar mechanical process to the way we learn in general. We put in the work, and the results will come.
It is Holy Week, and like most of us my family is pushing through, attending daily services. Only complication: my husband and I work on average 50 hours a week, and our kids attend public school. By Thursday, my eldest, a second grader, is falling asleep in class. He tells his concerned teacher that he is tired because we have been in church every evening. To which his teacher replied: “Tell your mom school is more important than church.”
Hearing that from my child did something to me.
A common struggle for homeschoolers is finding a supportive community in which to thrive. This is especially true if you attend a small parish or are a part of a church community with few homeschoolers. It is easy to feel alone and cut off from society, but that does not mean one must despair.
The desire for independence also increases as we become teens. Whether conscious of this or not, we want to stretch ourselves and practice all of the beautiful treasures our parents have passed down to us. This is good and natural. So how can we do this when we feel limited in the number of people we are surrounded by or too shy to approach those in our presence?
I love to write stories about our life in Alaska; homesteading; homeschooling; home birthing; business; entrepreneurship; houses; finding out that Christ truly loved me; breaking myself of soap operas, then TV, then talk radio, then Facebook/Instagram, and finally radio music. I love writing recipes, specifically good fasting ones (hopefully I can write a cookbook, God willing!), and generally giving people practical advice on all of these topics–oh and making sure to include lots of run-on sentences! I have dreamed of being the next Orthodox Christian version of “Dear Abby”, not that I’d be very good at it: I seem to love sticking my foot in my mouth and have strong opinions on most everything....much to my husband’s chagrin.
Today, I am writing the story of how my husband tricked me into homeschooling our kids.
High school is often the time when families shift from homeschool to "real" school (the misnomer commonly used in our house, at least, for brick-and-mortar school). I am very grateful to my parents, though, for giving me the opportunity to be homeschooled from preschool through graduation; and I believe I came out of the four years of high school a better-formed person with more knowledge and skills that will be of use to me the rest of my life than if I had gone to public school. Homeschooling has also offered me more freedom in my education and with my time than I would have otherwise had. As the oldest child in my family, there was certainly a learning curve to homeschool highschool, but it was a blessed journey! Here are some tips I learned along the way that helped me make the most of my four years of high school
Why are many Orthodox families turning towards homeschooling their children?
As the Director of an online school for homeschooling families, I talk with many parents of homeschoolers, and I also work directly with their children, so I have a unique window into the lives of these families.
It’s important to recognize that families across the nation and the world choose homeschooling for a multitude of reasons.
In March 2020, I (like most people) was restless. Very rarely did I leave my one-bedroom apartment where I lived alone with my cat. On top of that, I had recently moved to a new state and hadn’t had much time to make new friends before the first round of lockdowns started. I missed attending services at my local parishes, but more than that, I missed my previous parish, which I considered my “home.”
