Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Day

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider

Tomorrow, October 15th, is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Day. As Orthodox Christians, we honor the sanctity of the unborn and remember the words of our Lord: “let the little Children come unto me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matthew 19:4). This belief makes the observance of this day–a secular one–all the more important. 

We encourage everyone to stop at noon tomorrow, light a candle, and pray for the souls of all departed children and for peace and comfort for their families. If you would like a list of names to pray for, submitted by Saint Emmelia families, please email us at office@saintemmelia.com. 

Below, we have compiled a variety of resources for observing this day, including managing grief and supporting others.

Saints: 
There are, of course, numerous saints related to motherhood and children. Some whom you might consider getting to know, praying to and with, and seeking the comfort of are:

The Theotokos – who watched her precious Son die on the cross and knows the grief of loss and the joy of resurrection deeply

St. Emmelia & St. Macrina the Younger – when St. Emmelia’s son Naucratius died as a young adult, St. Macrina reminded her of St. Paul’s words: “we do not mourn as those who have no hope.” 

Matushka Olga – a patron saint for all women and children

St. Stylianos – a patron saint of children
St. John the Baptist – who recognized our Savior, even when they were both in the womb, signifying our children’s intrinsic connection to the Lord

St. Maria of Paris – who outlived all three of her children

Prayers:
Service after a Miscarriage or Stillbirth

General resources (including more prayers):
https://www.asceticlifeofmotherhood.com/blog/miscarriageresources 

https://www.october15th.com/resources/ 

https://www.marchofdimes.org/find-support/topics/miscarriage-loss-and-grief 

https://www.rachelsgift.org/about-us 

Teachings of the Orthodox Church:
https://www.newadvent.org/fathers/2912.htm

Dealing with grief:
If you have experienced loss, please consider reaching out to a mental health professional. No grief, no struggle, is too small to justify therapy. If you are unable to afford therapy, consider asking your priest for resources–either financial or local opportunities for more affordable therapy.

https://www.assemblyofbishops.org/directories/mental-health/

https://www.october15th.com/coping-with-grief/ 

https://www.rachelsgift.org/grief-resources

Give rest, O Lord, to your servants with thy saints, where sorrow and pain are no more; neither sighing, but life everlasting!

Listening Well

by Londyn, SEM Intern

I used to feel insecure about my quiet nature. I would watch others lead, speak, shine—commanding rooms with their charisma, weaving words into influence—and I would wonder if my presence was enough. I would sit in conversations, not always knowing what to say, but deeply feeling the weight of someone else’s words. And I would ask myself: is this a gift, or just passivity dressed up as virtue? Is my silence meaningful, or merely a void?

In a world that prizes visibility, volume, and velocity, quietness can feel like a flaw. We are taught to equate worth with productivity, impact with noise, and leadership with dominance. But Orthodoxy has a way of answering questions we did not know how to ask. It does not rush to fill silence with sound. It does not confuse stillness with stagnation. It teaches us that love is not always loud and that healing often comes through stillness. 

Throughout the life of the Church, there have been saints whose holiness was revealed not through eloquence, but through silence. St. Silouan the Athonite, for example, lived in quiet prayer and deep humility, offering his heart to God in stillness and tears. St. Mary of Egypt, after her dramatic conversion, spent decades in the desert in complete solitude, her repentance echoing loud. St. Seraphim of Sarov greeted visitors with radiant peace, often saying little but emanating divine love. These saint’s lives are icons of the truth that stillness can be the most powerful witness of grace.

When we listen, we echo Christ’s descent into our brokenness. We say, “I’m here. I see you, and I won’t run away.” And that presence can be more healing than any advice or solution. Listening is not passive, it is active love. It is spiritual labor and the work of mercy. And yes, it is quiet! And yet, so is the heart that prays in secret. If you have ever felt like your gift is too small, too quiet, too invisible—remember this: Christ was born in a cave. He came in silence. He healed with a touch. He listened to the woman at the well, to the thief on the cross, to the cries of the blind and the broken. And He listens to you. So go ahead, be the listener. Be the quiet one. Be the heart that holds space. You are doing holy work! 

Here are some ideas for growing as a listener:

Put away distractions: Silence your phone, close your tabs, and give your full attention. Presence is the first gift. 

Don’t interrupt: Let their words unfold. Silence does not have to be empty.

Pray before, during, and after: Ask God to help you listen with love, and to bless the person you’ve heard.

Allow pauses: Don’t rush to fill silence–let it breathe!

See Christ in the other: Every person is an icon. Listening becomes an act of reverence.

4 Reasons YOU Should Attend the NEW ENGLAND Conference

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider

“Oh, I guess that won’t matter, since you’ll be at the Saint Emmelia conference,” I said, looking at the little square on my screen that housed Fr. Noah’s face. We were heading towards hour two of a ministry meeting for our parish, working out logistics for an upcoming project.

“Well…we might be having the conference here…” Fr. Noah replied, his voice as calm as ever. I laughed, not realizing that he was serious and that hours later, I’d be frantically sending emails to our parishioners, looking for accommodations for 30 Saint Emmelia families. 

Weirdly, all through the chaos of the next 24 hours, I was thrilled. Actually…it wasn’t that weird at all. My husband and I had come to the very difficult decision that we needed to sit this conference out as I wasn’t even six weeks postpartum. We had both been really sad because the conferences are so special to us–and not just because I work for Saint Emmelia Ministries. And we were both so thrilled to be able to participate in the conference again this year, even though the circumstances weren’t ideal. So what makes the conferences so special that we were so excited to be thrust into a weekend of nonstop activity? 

As we draw closer to the 2025 NEW ENGLAND Conference, I’ll share with you my top four reasons why YOU should attend! 

4. It’s homegrown. Like all of our conferences, the NE Conference is planned by local moms who truly have a heart for homeschooling, Orthodoxy, and community. Each conference has a unique flavor, and one of the “spices” of the NE Conference is the dancing! The kids usually ask for more opportunities to dance, and it’s such a special way for them to connect with kids in other age groups, and to learn to interact with each other in a new context. 

3. It’s the people. I mentioned how amazing our volunteers are–and I really can’t emphasize that enough! But there is something so special about being with people who are on a journey similar to yours, people who have struggled or are struggling with the same challenges, people who have rejoiced in the same achievements or beautiful moments. People who value the same things. People who are family–the body of Christ, coming together to raise our children in faith in and love of Christ. 

2. It’s edifying and educational. Usually at the conferences, I’m zipping about, ensuring that everything is running smoothly, so I don’t always get to hear the talks. My time comes later, when I’m editing the recordings! I’m so grateful that I have to sit and listen to those recordings, because they are always so inspiring. This year, our keynote speaker is Fr. John Boddecker. His talks at the 2023 EAST Conference were amazing, and on top of that, he’s just a delight to talk to. In addition to that, there will be opportunities to learn from more experienced homeschooling moms, to get support and ideas for your own homeschooling! 

1. It’s the prayer. My husband and I always feel so refreshed after the conferences, and while all the things I mentioned above play into that, I think the biggest thing is that we get to spend a weekend focused on our faith and the work that God has put before us in educating our children to the glory of His Name. Standing together with other families and praying for our children and spouses, knowing that saints like St. Emmelia and her holy family are standing with us, is one of the most life-giving things we have done since as a family. 

Don’t miss out! Join us 

Saturday, October 18th

St. George Antiochian Orthodox Cathedral

Worcester, MA

More information & registration

Consistency

by Gabriella, SEM Intern

During my freshman year of high school, I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that turned my whole world upside down. I got diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS), which can affect my ability to walk, see, balance, and feel things through my body due to nerve damage. During this season of my life, I was in and out of the hospital for months on end, I struggled with my home prayer-life, I felt isolated and alone, and it seemed that I had truly hit rock-bottom. I am very much a rhythmic/routine kind of person, and this entire situation threw my life completely off balance. I had no routine, no rhythm, what felt like no community, and no end in sight. The only thing that was semi-consistent in my life was church. While I did feel isolated and shut out at times, my family made a point to take me to Liturgy every Sunday during this struggle, even when I was in a wheelchair. Yes, it was a struggle; yes, I felt invisible; but that consistency was all I had. 

My parents had given me my first ever prayer book and copy of the Orthodox Study Bible a year or two before my health complications started, but I hadn’t really gotten into the habit of using them daily, or even weekly. During this struggle with my health, when all I could do was lay or sit in bed for days on end, I finally found it in me to start using the tools my parents had gifted me. One thing I would often find myself doing was listening to a podcast or audiobook on Ancient Faith Radio and coloring in a coloring book for hours. It passed the time and gave me something to do. It gave me peace. 

The more I listened to these online resources, the more I wanted to try reading or doing (praying) the things I was hearing. I had to fight a lot of temptations when I started this. “I’m too tired right now,” “I am hurting a lot and won’t be able to pay attention,” “Resting would be better for me,” “Do I have to?” and so on. I’m sure most people have struggled with some version of these thoughts before. They are so appealing in the moment, and yet… I always seemed to feel worse if/when I listened to the thoughts. 

That next year, during Great Lent, my struggles increased. I could barely make it out of the house and struggled with anxiety and depression often. My family lived about an hour away from our parish at the time, and I hadn’t made it to almost any Lenten services. I wanted to push myself and go to as many Holy Week services as I could. This was for selfish reasons at first (I wanted to “check all the boxes”), but I grew to truly appreciate the services for what they are. My family took me to about half of the Holy Week services that year, and it was exhausting in the absolute best way. Then Pascha rolled around. I struggled through the service and had to go outside a few times, but once I Communed, something changed. That next week, right as I was going to see some specialists for my health problems, I was starting to heal. I was able to start using my legs for the first time in almost 9 months! 

The next year was a new kind of challenge. Now that I could walk again, I had to gain my strength back. I went to various different doctors and physical therapy offices, and I had to do different types of desensitization at home (my siblings loved to help with that!). Through the Grace of God, and everyone’s prayers and support, by the end of the year I was back to a regular state of health, whatever that means! 

Now, four years later, I still struggle with the same things from time to time. I knew my life would never be the same, but I knew one thing for sure, I had to keep the Church in my life. From this experience with my health I have grown to appreciate the services, prayers, and resources the Church gives us. Yes, I still struggle with those same thoughts and feelings I had when I was really sick, but they are less now. There are days I don’t want to get out of my cozy bed and go to my icons. There are days when I would much rather get lost in a good fiction book than read my Bible. But I have learned that if I listen to those thoughts, if I let myself get dragged away from the consistent help the Church gives me, I will always feel worse than when I started. 

I now make it a point to pray, read Scripture, and exercise daily. No matter how little or much I can do. I might just say “Lord, have mercy on me” and walk around my backyard listening to Scripture readings on my phone, or maybe just staring at my Bible. I often feel guilty when I do this, thinking it’s “not enough” and I’m a “terrible Christian”, but some days that is all I can give to God. I know He helps me where I fail on those days and loves me regardless. And if I didn’t keep up with these things, if I weren’t consistently trying to try, I would just fall back into all the complications I struggled with before and have even less motivation to get out.  No matter the amount, the effort, the consistent effort, is always what shines through. And thank God for that! 

Starting the School Year With Your Right Foot Forward

by Gabriella, SEM Intern

Ah yes, fall. Us students’ favorite time of year. Right around August/September, we are all starting up school again (or maybe you’re taking a gap year, or you’ve graduated. If so, congrats!). If you’ve had a busy summer like me, then you might feel as if the months flew by way too quickly, and school can’t possibly be starting again so soon. Yet here we are, about to jump into a world of books, lectures, homework, and more! It can seem pretty daunting, I know. However, with the right mindset and God’s Grace, it can be accomplished fairly easily! 

I just graduated this past May (2025) and am currently taking a gap year. I was homeschooled all the way through my K-12 years of education. My mom was my main teacher for the majority of the years, but then around 7th/8th grade, I began doing most of my work independently, and by 8th/9th grade I was doing all online classes through Saint Athanasius Academy (SAA). There were a lot of bumps and hiccups throughout the years I was in high school, and it was often hard to find the motivation to sit down and just get it done. I’d often find myself lost in a good book, spending time with my siblings, doing chores, or just sitting around procrastinating! Fall was especially challenging. I had gotten used to a new routine over the summer, and then it all had to change in a few days. I had to get used to attending classes again, keeping up with assignments, making sure to take notes properly, and balancing all that with my spiritual and family lives. It was never fun. 

Even though the first few weeks (sometimes months, or maybe the entire year) of school feel draining, stressful, and sometimes lonely, I always felt so rewarded after pushing through and getting into a new rhythm. During the last few years of high school, I learned about and grew close to a few saints who are known for their help to students. Some of my favorites are Saint John of Kronstadt (commemorated December 20th/January 2nd), Saint Sergius of Radonezh (commemorated September 25th/October 8th), and the Three Holy Hierarchs (St. John Chrysostom, St. Basil the Great, and St. Gregory the Theologian [commemorated January 30th/February 12th]). I have icons of St. John of Kronstadt and the Holy Hierarchs by my desk and I would always ask for their intercessions before starting any of my school work or classes. 

Along with these saints, there are several prayers for before classes/studying which can be found here (you’ll have to scroll down a little bit, fyi!). These are wonderful ways to incorporate the Faith into your daily lessons and are extremely helpful.

I know it sounds cliche, but another thing that is always helpful is the 30/5 rule. You work for 30 minutes, you take a break for 5. And no, scrolling on your phone or computer does not count as a break. Go outside, walk around, do some squats or stretches, read about the saints of the day, etc. Just get up and away from your work for a few minutes to recharge and come back to it with a clear mind! Especially if you are starting to feel groggy/unmotivated. You can also listen to some music to get your mind out of a fog. The SEM playlists have some great songs! 

Along with taking the core classes, I found that taking electives or classes about topics I am really interested in helps me be much more engaged in the topic. If you’re interested in history, take a class on a period you really want to learn more about; if you like books, do a book club; if you’re into theater and acting, find a local theater (preferably a Christian one), or do something online (maybe try writing a play for English class); if you like space, astronomy; etc, etc…Y’all are smart, I think you get the idea! 

The point is, if you enjoy something, learning about it will help you to both retain the information better and deepen your appreciation for that topic. During high school I took at least one or two Orthodox Studies classes each year. I took classes about the Old Testament, one about Early African Christianity/Saints, one about the Cappadocian Fathers, and many more. They were all so much fun and I feel like I was truly able to deepen my appreciation for our Faith. All of the classes I listed I took from SAA if anyone wants to check them out! 

One last thing to remember in this season of Marian feasts, is the example the Panagia gave us as young adults. As we enter this school year, wherever we are, whatever is happening or going to happen, we need to remember to be meek, humble, and contemplative in all the work we do. Yes, you are going to mess up that essay. Yes, you are going to ask a dumb question in class or answer one way wrong. No, you are not going to make it through the year completely perfectly. In all of these challenges that the school year brings, it is important to remember that Christ is giving us these beautiful opportunities to learn about Him through the subjects we are studying. We don’t need to get mad about the bad grammar on our assignment, we don’t need to get annoyed with our teachers/parents, we don’t need to isolate ourselves to get school done. Will all of these things happen? Yes, they will. Even if you try to avoid getting mad, annoyed, or distant, it is bound to happen. That’s life. And school is a stressful thing that EVERYONE struggles with. What really matters is how we approach it and grow from it. Will we follow Christ and His Mother as examples of our attitudes? Or will we lean toward the Disciples of Jesus on the boat and freak out about the waves of schoolwork around us? It’s up to you, and I wish you all the best as you enter this school year! May God give us all strength.

Stillness, Part II

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider, Saint Emmlia Ministries Assistant

It seems a bit silly for me, of all people, to be writing this blog post. After all, I am not, by nature, a particularly “still” person. I struggle with fairly severe anxiety, and my mind tends to wander towards current or potential projects whenever I’m faced with a task that seems mundane. On the other hand, that means that I have had to think a lot about ways to achieve even the tiniest bit of stillness. Here are some habits and techniques that have helped me.

1. Remember your goals. Yes, there’s curriculum to teach, laundry to fold, dishes to wash, errands to run…a never-ending list of chores and responsibilities. And those things are important, but they are not the goal. Our main goal is to be sanctified, thereby being united with Christ. Our second goal is to raise our children to pursue the same. Our third goal is to love and serve others. Completing housework, teaching a set amount of curriculum, and so on—these are much farther down the list. When you approach each moment as a possibility for achieving our goals, essentially giving each moment to Christ, the rest of the world has a way of melting away. You’ll still be folding the same shirt you folded yesterday or washing the 800th fork of the day, but you’ll be doing it with the knowledge that it is for your sanctification, not for marking off a to-do list item. 

2. Lead with prayer. One of the biggest disruptors in my peace is arguing and negotiating allllllllll day with tiny humans who don’t know how to tie their shoes but are convinced they should be in charge of…well, everything. One of the–if not THE–sweetest balms for that struggle is prayer. When it feels like I’m disciplining my children every 5 minutes, I stop and pray. Not silently, not a memorized prayer. I take my child onto my lap, and I ask God to give me His love and peace. And then I ask my child to take a turn praying. I cannot think of a single instance in which this has not opened my child’s and my hearts to reconciling with each other, working together, and loving each other more.

3. Pray for others. Something I really struggle with is replaying interactions on loop, dissecting them and fretting about them. And if I’m not analyzing specific interactions, I’m probably worrying about entire relationships. Recently, I have begun focusing on praying for people the moment they come to mind. If I am able to do a full circuit on my prayer rope (Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on my mother/my friend/this sick person at church/a political leader who said something troublesome), that’s a massive blessing! But five “Lord have mercies” as I’m going about chores works wonders on their own.

4. Practice gratitude. It’s hard to be anxious when you’re focused on how many gifts you have and how many good things you are surrounded by in the current moment (no matter how stressful that moment is!). When my child does something well (like obeying quickly or completing a task efficiently), we thank God and our guardian angels. I (try to) give thanks for my children throughout the day, appreciating every smile, funny expression, precocious or goofy comment, etc. At dinner each night, we take turns thinking back on the day and choosing one thing that we’re grateful for. These three things have made our home so much more peaceful.

5. Live in the moment. If I had to sum up my other tips, it would be this! When you give up the things of tomorrow, or next week, or 10 years ago, and you focus on what is in front of you in this moment, there is so much more room for peace and stillness. This is a very hard thing to do! It’s a bit like doing a plank while working out, and I myself can only hold this mental “plank” for a few seconds at a time, and with great effort. But just like with learning to do a plank, you get a little stronger each time you do it! One thing that has helped me when my thoughts start to wander away from whatever is in front of me in a given moment is to picture–or more accurately, feel–myself actually handing my thoughts over to Christ. 

In Part I, Londyn shared a beautiful piece of wisdom from Saint Isaac the Syrian: “Establish your heart in peace, and a multitude around you will be saved.” But along with that exquisite articulation of the importance of stillness, I want to share this reminder from St. Paul in his letter to the Hebrews: Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

Remember that stillness is one of the destinations on our way to our ultimate goal of being united with Christ…but it is also a race—more accurately, a marathon—in and of itself! Take courage, and each time you fall, letting the noise of the world crowd in, get back up with God’s strength, and begin to run again! 

God be with you in this difficult, but incredibly rewarding, race! 

Stillness

by Londyn, SEM Intern

The world we live in is loud. Nearly everywhere we go, there’s motion and sound– conversations rise and fall, and the chatter of plans and problems and priorities is ever going. While none of this is inherently wrong, I’ve come to notice how easily all this noise piles up in my heart. After a while, it starts to feel like clutter. And in the middle of it all, I find myself longing—not just for rest, but for something deeper. I long for stillness. Not just the absence of sound, but the kind of stillness that lets the soul breathe. That sacred quiet that lets me see clearly again and remember what matters most. The Church has a word for this: hesychia—holy silence. A silence not of emptiness, but of fullness. A silence in which we can finally hear God.

Psalm 45:11 says, “Be still and know that I am God.”

Over time and prayer, I’ve learned that silence can begin in the smallest places: closing my eyes before a meal and remembering that every breath is a miracle. Walking under the stars and letting wonder rise. Sitting beside a loved one without needing to speak.

Stillness isn’t always easy. Sometimes it feels uncomfortable, especially at first. I’ve had moments where I sit down to pray in silence and suddenly everything I’ve ignored comes rushing in—worries, regrets, distractions. But even that is part of the healing. Stillness makes us honest. It clears out space so that something better can grow.

The desert fathers didn’t choose solitude because they hated people—they longed for the presence of God in a pure and undistracted way. In their words and lives, I see a deep truth: that the quieter our hearts become, the more clearly we hear the One who made them.

“Establish your heart in peace,” wrote Saint Isaac the Syrian, “and a multitude around you will be saved.” What a thought—that my personal stillness, my quiet love for Christ, can ripple outward and bring peace to others. Isn’t that the kind of person we all long to become? The kind whose very presence brings calm? The kind who listens without hurrying, who sees without judging, who loves without noise?

Life won’t always give us silence. But stillness can live even within sound. It’s an attitude of the heart—a way of being. I’ve felt it even while walking in a crowd or washing dishes or watching leaves fall. I think that’s the grace of it: once you start to make space for stillness, it follows you. It becomes part of you. Because beneath it all—beneath the schedules and worries and distractions—there is a God who waits to be known. And His voice is not in the earthquake or the fire or the whirlwind. His voice is in silence and He’s already speaking.

Check back for part II, Practical Tips for Fostering Stillness!

New Resource: Activities for the Liturgical Cycle

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider

Ah, curriculum. How on earth do we fit in all the sundry bits of knowledge that we want our children to learn? History, math, geography, biology…and most important of all, our faith! It can feel like there simply aren’t enough minutes in the day to fit in all the information that we need to transmit.

In our most recent Saint Macrina Lecture, both of our speakers addressed the need to “encounter” material—or the things that we are trying to learn about. Of course, the best way to do this when it comes to teaching our children the faith is to go to church, to experience the Liturgy alongside the hosts both visible and invisible. But it can be difficult to know how to enrich our children’s understanding of the Liturgical Cycle from home. That is why we’ve compiled a fairly comprehensive list of activities to complete alongside the feasts of the church.

Just in time for Ascension and Pentecost, we offer a collection of resources from all around the Orthodox internet world. For example, to teach children about the Great Commission, you might complete this dye-mixing experiment. Or perhaps you’ll make cloud marshmallows to commemorate Christ ascending into the clouds. Or maybe you want to practice the festal troparion leading up to Pentecost. Included in this document are many lesson plans/discussion guides for the major feats of the Church, as well as for significant saints.

While this is a pretty long list, we know that there are tons of incredible resources out there. If you know of a resource we ought to add, please email us at office@saintemmelia.com!

Building Your Resume as a Homeschooler

by Cecilia, SEM intern

When I first started homeschooling, I was frustrated that I didn’t have access to as many service and leadership opportunities as public-schoolers. I felt that my resume was lacking compared to theirs; the clubs, service opportunities, and honor societies which public schools offered seemed to be impossible to be part of as a homeschooler. However, I have come to find that within my church, diocese, and community, there are a myriad of truly rewarding opportunities in which to serve and lead. My resume is now jam-packed with lists of activities and initiatives I have undertaken. If you’re struggling to build up your resume, I hope these ideas will help you:

See what activities your diocese (or other dioceses!) have to offer.

I am part of the Antiochian Archdiocese, and I have found many programs in which to participate and demonstrate leadership. Take a look at Teen SOYO’s website, or your diocese’s equivalent. Here are some programs that I know of:

• Teen SOYO/GOYA board (often offered on a national, diocese, and parish level)

• Bible Bowl

• Oratorical Festival

• Creative Arts Festival

• Special Olympics Pennsylvania

• SOYO Day of Service

• TRUST Project

• Sacred Music Institute - Youth Music Ministries

• Orthodox Summer Camps (to be camper or counselor)

• CrossRoad Institute

• Lampstand Institute (ages 18+)

• Iconography workshops

• Saint Emmelia Ministries interning

While you should capitalize on opportunities offered around you, it is also important to be creative in starting things up yourself!

If you see a need in your parish, do something about it! Chances are, your priest will give you a blessing to start up a club or service initiative of some sort. Here are some questions to consider: Are the girls in your parish finding opportunities to serve? If not, start a handmaiden/myrrhbearers group! Is your church in need of a weekly cleaning schedule? Would a Bible Study be helpful? Would a book or sports club bring people together? Could you have a babysitting fundraiser or homeschool book sale to benefit the parish/another cause? Does your church have a meal train for new mothers or sick parishioners? Does your church have an official teen/youth group?

Look around at the needs of your parish and see how you can help. This is great leadership. On your resume, you may want to include keywords such as “coordinator,” “initiator,” “leader,” “teen representative,” etc.

Here are some more ideas:

• Join the choir.

• Serve in the altar.

• Host a fellowship hour with your friends or organize a clean-up schedule.

• Make prosphora/artos (and organize a baking schedule, if there is not already one).

• Organize a team to decorate the church for feasts (cloth changing, flower arranging). Ask your priest if there are any specific needs!

• Lead a workshop for the parish or specifically for younger children (on prayer roping, baking prosphora, sewing, etc.).

• Sit down with people at coffee hour whom you normally do not talk to and you will be surprised how many opportunities will arise! Just be open!

Work in your community.

• Look into YMCA/community programs.

• Volunteer at a local library or at any events they offer.

• Get a part-time job!

• Volunteer at a women’s clinic.

• It doesn’t ever hurt to ask if a specific organization/company would be able to accept you as a volunteer or hired worker. People are more open than you may think! It never hurts to ask.

• See what service activities your friends are participating in.

Pick up a hobby!

Hobbies show that you are a well-rounded person, which a lot of colleges like to see. You need to show that you are doing things outside of academics.

• Learn or further develop a foreign language.

• Start a small shop of homemade items.

• Take vocal or instrumental lessons.

• Take advantage of YouTube as a resource to start learning something new (instruments, cooking, ASL, crafts, etc.)

• Start a YouTube Channel or online portfolio.

• Pick up photography or videography.

Make activities fit your resume.

Remember that the purpose of a resume is to demonstrate your achievements, not just activities that you took part in. For example, instead of saying something like:

St. Philip Orthodox Church – Volunteer

• Maintained candles for services

Antiochian Archdiocese Oratorical Festival – Competitor

• Gave a speech on Romans 1:1

You should emphasize the outcome of your work:

St. Philip Orthodox Church – Volunteer

• Beautified the parish by cleaning the candle stands and stocking candles

Antiochian Archdiocese Oratorical Festival – Competitor

• Researched, wrote, and delivered a speech on Romans 1:1 to a panel of [x] judges and audience, honing skills in public speaking

Thinking about your activities and involvement this way allows you to convey to potential supervisors how and why these activities have prepared you to be a good candidate for the position you’re applying to.

Often, it’s a good idea to include a section for interests. You’d be surprised how potential supervisors might find ways to apply your hobbies to the position you’re applying for! Noting how long you’ve been involved in that hobby shows your dedication, while listing your level of involvement (e.g., “self-taught” or “competitive,” etc.) will speak to your drive. You can avoid taking valuable space away from job and volunteer experience by putting your interests section in a sidebar or as a single line (instead of a bulleted list) at the end of your document.

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It can be tough to undertake something new. It takes courage to reach out to people around you, and resilience to learn from some of the inevitable failures you’ll experience. Ask God continually for help and guidance: ask Him to work through your hands, to move your feet to service, and to show how you can serve with the unique set of talents He has given you. God bless you! (And remember to do all for the glory of His name, not only to make your resume impressive!)

Being Christian in Difficult Environments

by Caroline, SEM Intern

“So in every test, let us say, ‘Thank you, my God, because this was needed for my salvation.’” -St. Paisios the Athonite

In elementary and middle school I attended private Catholic and public school. I was the only practicing Orthodox Christian besides my brother at both schools. At times, it was quite difficult being the only one who wasn’t either a Catholic, Protestant, or atheist. There were many times that I was asked to explain things, such as icons and certain Saints, to a crowd who wasn’t interested in learning.

My time at the public school was a challenging time for my faith. There were a few moments that confronted my beliefs. I vividly remember having a substitute teacher one day for my computer science class in eighth grade. We didn’t have a substantial assignment so there was more free time to catch up on other homework and talk. Out of twentyish kids in my class, there were about four to five practicing and believing Christians. One classmate, who was a firm atheist, loved to debate. She began to talk about how she didn’t believe in God and that Jesus was not the Son of God. A few other students joined in, and it became a heated discussion. Rather than calm down the conversation, the teacher encouraged it and subtly agreed with my classmates. I remember being completely silent and uncomfortable. The other Christians in the classroom were also silent and unsure of what to say.

On my first day in eighth grade, I was quite lonely. While no one was mean to me, I didn’t make many friends. One group of kids noticed and invited me to sit with them. The first thing they asked me was “Are you a Christian?” While I answered yes, I felt like I had to justify why. There was a Catholic church right beside the lunch hall, and as we walked to class, they began to make fun of the church. Rather than calling them out, I laughed along with them. I compromised my beliefs in order to please people. It’s very easy to say that you wouldn’t do that until you’re in a difficult situation. Standing up to my classmates and friends who made fun of Christianity would have jeopardized those friendships. In retrospect, it may seem like that wouldn’t have been a huge deal, but it was a really huge worry for me in middle school. I desperately wanted someone to like me, and I based my worth around how many friends I had.

So, how do we respond to situations like these in a Christian-like manner? I think the book of Titus offers wonderful guidance: “Likewise, exhort the young men to be sober-minded, in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility, sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil to say of you” (Titus 2:6-8). Mark 13:11 also reminds us that we should not worry beforehand about what we should say. “ But when they arrest you and deliver you up, do not worry beforehand, or premeditate what you will speak. But whatever is given you in that hour, speak that; for it is not you who speak, but the Holy Spirit.”

We need to speak with humility and gentleness to our “opponents.” You might possibly be one of their first encounters with a Christian. Unkind speech can make someone not want to step foot in a church. We should strive to speak in a way that cannot be condemned or spoken ill of. It is crucial to not talk poorly about others. I always try to remember that the other party is still someone created in the image and likeness of God. It’s very important to humanize them and extend grace. Just because someone treats us unfavorably doesn’t mean we should do the same. How would we be different if we sneered back at them? Everybody’s situation is different, and you never know what they may be going through.

It is key to determine if the other party genuinely wants to understand your point or simply wants to argue with you. Typically, if they are just interested in being right, it’s not fruitful to debate with them. Some people do not deserve nor need an explanation from you. As St. Paul states in Titus 3:9, “But avoid foolish disputes, genealogies, contentions, and strivings about the law, for they are unprofitable and useless.” We should find an appropriate time to speak while being wise and careful about our words. It is also crucial to ensure that we are not motivated by the desire to “be right.” If we want to speak out of hatred or anger for the other party, perhaps it is not the right time to engage.

It is also important to weigh whether speaking up would ruin your relationship with the other person. I find that most true friends would not be angry with you for disagreeing with them. If you are truly afraid of losing them, maybe it’s time to reflect on your relationship with them. You’re not going to lose a real friend; rather you’ll lose someone who wants others to reaffirm their opinions and beliefs. Everyone is at a different place, and it’s okay to walk away from someone who drags you down. We can love and pray for others from a distance. I often remind myself that we are who we surround ourselves with.

We should use these difficult times to grow in virtue. As St. Theophan the Recluse says in Unseen Warfare, “If you wish always to press forward on the path of virtue without stopping, you should pay great attention to things, which may serve as chances for acquiring virtue, and never let them slip out of your hands.” God allows us to be put in these situations as opportunities for us to grow in virtue and faith!

As we reach closer to Holy week and Pascha, let us remember the words of the Gospel of John: "In Him was life, and the life was the light of men, and the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness could not overcome it." (John 1:4-5). We should think of being “the light” like how we light each other’s candles during the Paschal rush service. Instead of keeping the light to ourselves, we should spread it around! Whenever someone’s candle goes out, we should relight it. If our candle goes out, we should ask for someone’s help to relight it. From up close, we can see each candle and person individually. However, from afar, the candles are all one large and bright light. You'll meet so many people whose “candles” are out, and it is our job to spread the light. Sometimes, we’ll have to face dark environments and remind ourselves that it’s hard to adjust from the dark to light. Those who have been in darkness for a while may be uncomfortable with a new-found light. Rather than forcing light upon those who may not be ready, let us gradually glow and be radiant, striving to be examples of Christ’s love for mankind.

Staying Motivated Mid-Year

by Londyn, SEM Intern

At any stage of life–high school, college–finishing the school year can feel overwhelming with the demands of education, family, friends, social life, and our faith. Balancing these aspects can be challenging, but with thoughtful strategies, you can manage your time effectively and stay motivated. Here are some tips on time management, balancing responsibilities, staying motivated, and the importance of exercise and the outdoors! I believe that with balance we can bring ourselves more peace in life. 

Time Management Tips

Time management is crucial, especially during the busy end-of-year period. Start by making a list of everything you need to do and rank these tasks by importance and deadlines. Focus on completing the most critical tasks first, avoiding the stress of last-minute rushes. Planning your day, including specific times for studying, family activities, and breaks, helps allocate time effectively. Break down large tasks into smaller, manageable steps and set achievable goals for each day or week to provide a sense of accomplishment. Avoid procrastination by tackling tasks as soon as they arise and use techniques like the Pomodoro method (working for 25 minutes, then taking a 5-minute break) to maintain focus. Additionally, make time for constant prayer. “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” Or, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me for I am weak.”

Balancing Family/Social Life and School Responsibilities

Maintaining a balance between family, social life, and school responsibilities is essential for overall well-being. Communicate with your family and friends about your schedule and commitments to gain their support and understanding. Focus on spending quality time with loved ones, even if it’s just a short period, as meaningful interactions can strengthen relationships and provide emotional support. Consider incorporating social time into your routine, such as study groups with friends or family prayer sessions, to stay connected while fulfilling responsibilities. It’s also crucial to know how to say no when necessary to prevent overcommitting and becoming overwhelmed. Prioritize your well-being and responsibilities over social pressures.

Staying Motivated in School and Mundane Activities

Staying motivated during the final stretch of the school year can be tough. Establish both short-term and long-term goals to give you something to work towards and celebrate your progress and achievements. Remind yourself why your education and activities are important, whether for personal growth, future career opportunities, or making your family proud. Staying connected to your faith by starting and ending your day with prayer can provide strength and perseverance. Try crossing yourself to bless yourself before and after work; whether you are cooking, cleaning, studying, or about to take a test. Take some time to memorize these two prayers: Common Prayers - Before and after any Work - Orthodox Church in America. Adding variety to your routine can also boost motivation, such as changing your study environment or trying different study techniques. Lastly, don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed; reaching out to teachers, family, or friends for support and encouragement can make a significant difference.

Importance of Exercise and the Outdoors in Learning

Physical activity and spending time outdoors play a vital role in overall well-being and academic performance. Regular exercise increases blood flow and oxygen to the brain, enhancing cognitive function and concentration. Activities like walking, running, or playing sports (even without a team, just play with friends or family!) can boost energy levels and improve focus. Physical activity helps reduce stress and anxiety by releasing endorphins, the body’s natural mood elevators. Taking breaks for exercise can help you feel more relaxed and focused when you return to your studies. Studies show that spending time outdoors can improve attention and creativity, making it easier to absorb and retain information. If ever possible, take your study sessions outside to enjoy fresh air and sunlight. Use your time outdoors to appreciate the beauty of the world around you and deepen your connection to God.

As you navigate the final stretch of your school year, remember that balance and faith are your best allies. By managing your time effectively, maintaining a healthy balance between your responsibilities, staying motivated, and prioritizing physical activity and the outdoors, you can finish the school year strong. Keep the Lord at the center of your life, and you’ll find the strength and resilience to overcome any challenges that come your way. God be with you! 

Reflecting on a Fruitful Summer

by Cecilia, SEM Intern

When people would ask me the classic question, “How was your summer?” I found it an understatement to merely reply, “good.” This past summer, I jumped on nearly every opportunity available to me—all which enriched my spiritual, social, and family life in a unique way. I want to share some of my fruitful experiences with you to give ideas for your upcoming summer. When considering summer plans, trying to find a balance between service, family time, fun, and spiritual growth can be very difficult. Hopefully my experiences will give you some ideas for your summer itinerary!

I started my summer on a five-week trip to Romania with my father, where we spent two weeks at my grandmother’s apartment (finishing up work and school) before departing on our three-week pilgrimage across the country! This time with my father and grandmother was invaluable, and any pilgrimage trips available to you, I would earnestly recommend taking. You don’t need to go as far as Romania to visit monasteries and other holy places of our faith! See what is within a reasonable driving distance from you.

Soon after coming back to the US, I spent two weeks of my summer at Antiochian Village (AV) Camp, which I found both exciting and (to be honest) a little exhausting. There are hundreds of kids who attend each session, which makes for an either extremely exciting environment, or an overstimulating one, depending on your personality. There are smaller Orthodox camps similar to AV around the country if you are interested in a smaller, more local setting! For a comprehensive list, visit this site.
At AV, developing relationships with Orthodox counselors and campers was incredible. Although the (sometimes rambunctious) environment was difficult to be a part of—especially immediately following my peaceful Romanian pilgrimage!—I found beauty in intimate friendships, raw and vulnerable conversations, laughter, and other joys of camp. AV and other Orthodox camps are very good for reigniting interest in the Church, as the day is structured around services and prayer. Camp is helpful to those who want to start or improve on incorporating prayer into their daily routine, as it forms wonderful habits. Camp can be a very beautiful experience, especially for those needing a spiritual rejuvenation or wanting to form friendships with other Orthodox peers.

Following AV Camp, I attended the Parish Life Conference for my diocese, where I cheered my parish on in the Bible Bowl and gave an oration for the Regional Oratorical Festival. This was a wonderful opportunity for public speaking, as my speech was given to an audience of clergy & laypeople. The annual topics for the oratorical festivals are always so edifying: they give teens an opportunity to explore and familiarize themselves with the Church fathers and scriptural commentary. (This year’s theme for the Antiochian archdiocese comes from Luke 1:38: “Then Mary said, ‘Behold the maidservant of the Lord! Let it be to me according to your word.’”) The oratorical festival and its equivalents across jurisdictions provide youth with the opportunity to write and present a spiritual oration that they are passionate about. Look to see what your diocese offers, or see if you can be involved with another diocese’s program! 

My next event of the summer was the Youth Music Ministry (YMM) program at the annual Sacred Music Institute (SMI), which was also held at the Antiochian Village Conference Center. In this program, teens with varying levels of musical knowledge come together to sing and learn about Western and Byzantine musical traditions alike. We practiced a few challenging pieces of music, such as Chesnokov’s Salvation is Created, Rachmaninov’s Rejoice, O Virgin, and Nazo Zakkak’s Awed by the Beauty. This was a wonderful experience, and I would recommend it to anyone. If you are a teen in the Antiochian Archdiocese, you receive a full scholarship the first year you attend the SMI, leaving no financial barriers to prevent you from participating in the sacred music of our Church! 

Directly after this, I attended Iconography Camp, which runs during one week of the third session of AV summer camp. This camp admits fourteen teens, who each complete an icon within the week of camp. NO experience in iconography (or any art) is necessary to come! There is so much that you can learn in one week of studying and working on iconography. Due to the small number of teen attendees, the camp experience is very intimate, allowing you to grow close to your peers through working on a holy task together. This camp is a great springboard into more serious iconography. I know several teens who have attended this camp and have continued to pursue iconography, even being commissioned! If there are any iconography workshops around you this summer, I recommend going. If you decide to go to camp or a workshop, see if your parish’s teen fund can sponsor you and partially cover your expenses.

After iconography camp, I left for West Virginia. My parish’s teen group joined another parish from Connecticut on a mission trip to Appalachia. This program was called Orthodox Youth Mission Team (OYMT), under the broader organization called Appalachia Service Project (ASP). ASP is a protestant organization, but because our group was exclusively Orthodox, we were able to pray our Orthodox prayers each morning and evening. This mission trip was best described to me as “starting where summer camp ends,” in that it shifts the focus from trying to find how you can have a good time, and points the focus on others. There was no space on this trip to focus on myself, which was both challenging and extremely formative. It was about working to better someone else’s home and engaging with the homeowners to share the joy of Christ. Unlike some missionary groups, our goal was not to preach to them with a program or even with words, but rather through our actions: our goal was to serve as fellow neighbors in Christ. Our hope was that through our actions, the light of Christ would illuminate the hearts of the homeowners. I also picked up a LOT of construction skills and experience on the mission trip, which has benefited me greatly. 

On the final morning of the mission trip, we drove back north to Antiochian Village Conference Center, where I performed my oration at the National Oratorical Festival as I was the regional winner. I performed my oration in front of two patriarchs, which, although nerve wracking, was an edifying experience. I placed second on the national level. It was a great opportunity to practice my oration again and apply the feedback which had been given to me at the regional level. I find myself much more comfortable with public speaking now than I did before the summer.

Directly after the Oratorical Festival, I attended SOYO Leadership Training, as earlier that year I was accepted as a member of the Teen SOYO Eastern Region Diocese board. From Friday to Wednesday, the board members of dioceses from all over North America learned from youth and spiritual advisors. We discussed upcoming plans and goals for the year on the deanery, regional, and national levels. This experience pushed me outside my comfort zone for sure, as it was almost a week of being with an entirely new group of people and being challenged in my leadership skills. However, I learned so much and came out of it more fit for my role as the board’s secretary. I recommended this opportunity to anyone who wishes to serve the teens of his or her diocese in an intimate and impactful fashion. If you are part of the Antiochian Archdiocese, ask your youth advisor or check your diocese’s website/social media to see if they are accepting applications for the upcoming year. If you are outside of the Antiochian archdiocese, see if your archdiocese does something similar with their teen ministry. Or, to start, see how you can help your teen group on a parish level! 

A few days after this, I went to AV (yes, again) to participate as a SOYO Coach at Special Olympics Pennsylvania Multi-Sport Training Camp. This might have been my favorite activity of the summer. This camp strives to give athletes with intellectual disabilities a chance to compete in their specialized sport (and try new sports!) throughout the week. Before the athletes arrived, the teens spent two days preparing for the camp to begin: we were educated in safety, regulations, expectations, sports rules/gameplay, and more. When the athletes arrived on Sunday, I was immediately filled with joy. Several of them ran up to me saying how much they had missed me, though I had never met them before. There were so many hugs and joyful faces; I could tell that these athletes looked forward to Sports Camp throughout the entire year.
Going into the week, I had no idea what to expect. I didn’t know how I would function in this environment or what I could get out of the experience. But I learned so much from these athletes and found myself continually humbled throughout the week. The athletes had such a pure, selfless disposition, of which I was always in awe. I was there to serve them, but found myself more often than not served by them. This program also gave me an opportunity to form close bonds with the other teen volunteers, as we were sharing a common beautiful experience. We were given a lot of responsibility and freedom, and that is what allowed for such a selfless ministry to form.
But I must mention that it was a very tiring experience. The volunteers had to be “on” for almost the whole day and we were often outside, active in the sun for hours. The curfew for teens tended to be late (around eleven or midnight), and the mornings started early, so I was not getting as much sleep as I probably needed.

So, I ended my summer exhausted and with a fever, but I don’t regret any of it! These experiences were some of the most rewarding ones of which I have been privileged to be a part. I earnestly hope that you will consider some of them for your upcoming summer—though perhaps you won’t choose quite as many as I did!

Beating the Winter Blues

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider, Saint Emmelia Ministries Assistant

It is a truth (nearly) universally acknowledged that homeschoolers stuck in the deep midwinter must be in want of an outlet for their energy. Add on the swift approach of Lent, and accomplishing anything–let alone productive schoolwork–seems like a far-off dream! 

First, it’s important to know that whatever you do manage to accomplish is perfectly fine. Your kids’ futures will not suffer in any way because you didn’t make it all the way through their textbooks according to your original schedule (or at all). They will learn everything they need to know whether they slam through 5 levels of Rocket Math in two days or in two months! And “staying on track” is never, ever worth souring your homeschool experience and relationships with your kids because everyone is constantly squabbling. 

So, as much as you can, relax your expectations. Reevaluate what absolutely needs to be done and at what pace your kids can reasonably accomplish those things. Find ways to make the necessities joyful, and let the instruction, concepts, and lessons come second–because they will come.

Here are some ideas for EASY activities that might help make your lessons more joyful as you get through the winter slump.

1. Design a board game. When I was a homeschooler, one of my favorite activities was to design a board game to review for an evaluation (or just to practice concepts). I loved drawing out the game path and setting it all up while my mom worked with my siblings. Then, when they had finished up their tasks, we would gather around the board and start playing! When I became a teacher myself, my students pretty universally loved using this as a study tool for evaluations. 
   
   The best part of this activity is that it can really work for any concept–practicing spelling words, reviewing history dates, solving math problems, etc. The second best part is that you can easily make a game board with materials you have around the house. Posterboard is ideal, but construction or printer paper work too. In my avid game-making years, we had a little box full of rubber animals that made the perfect game pieces, but you can use anything around the house. For even less mess, you can replicate all of this on a whiteboard, using magnets as game pieces.

   The simplest version is a Candy Land style “road.” Kids can make up special instructions for different squares, such as “move backward 5 squares”–or even things as silly as “do 10 jumping jacks!” At the start of each turn, a player will have to answer a question. If they get the answer right, they can then roll the dice to determine how many squares they move. If they don’t get the answer correct, they lose a turn.

   Of course, you can use any kind of board game using the same concept. What really matters is that it’s a very quick way to add a new, fun element to your studies.

2. Do a Nature Scavenger Hunt. This is another one that you can make as simple or as complicated as you want–all that matters is that you’re getting out in nature and taking a little time to really look at things. In its most simple form, kids can look for things in nature that correspond to each color of the rain bow. If you want to really get invested, you could take an empty egg carton and paint each slot a different color. As you walk, kids can fill it with whatever they find. Of course, depending on where you live, finding things that are pink, purple, or blue might be quite a challenge in the winter, so consider adjusting your color palette with that in mind.

3. Bake something. Baking is such a great educational activity: it incorporates science, math, following instructions, and creativity–and, of course, you get a tasty treat at the end! There are lots of resources available online to help you explain the chemical processes that happen during baking, but even if you forgo scientific or mathematical instruction, kids will get a lot out of the project!

4. Make a craft. I know this sounds obvious, but the point I want to make here is that making a craft does not have to be complicated. Throw something down on the floor (an old tablecloth or shower curtain liner, scrap paper or newspaper, etc.) and put out whatever craft supplies you have on hand. Get creative–throw in a handful of cotton swabs, cotton balls, rubber bands, and so on. Everyone can work together or make their own project.

5. Do something kind for someone else. One of the best ways to get over bad days, in my experience, is to think about someone else. It doesn’t have to be complicated; in fact, it can be as simple as picking up a quick treat from the grocery store and going to a friend’s house (especially if they’re also having a bad day) to help out with chores. You could combine this with one of the other activities, like baking something, and deliver your treats to someone like your godfamily or priest. Or you could even sit down and write letters and draw pictures for anyone in your parish who is sick or homebound.

6. Have a “saint day.” Look up the saints for the day. Choose one and read about them. Listen to their troparion, and if you can find the sheet music for it, try to learn it. If the saint is famous, you can probably find corresponding activities with a simple internet search. If less is known about them, you can look up recipes, games, and crafts from their home country. Maybe you can even trace or draw “icons” of that saint! Whatever you choose to do, spend as much of the day as you can just getting to know one particular saint. 

These are just a handful of the many activities you can do to break up your routine when your routine is just too much. Ultimately, what you do doesn’t really matter; what’s important is to remember to not let your homeschooling–and your family life–become a battleground. Remember that even God rested. Have grace with yourself and your kids. There’s plenty of time for them to learn everything they need to know, but they’ll only be the exact age they are now for a very short time. Treasure it! 

Starting the College Search

by Londyn, SEM Intern

From personal experience as a junior in high school, I know that trying to figure out what I want from my education and experience is daunting. It's helpful to have a thorough and clear idea of what to consider before applying and getting to college. Here are some key points to think about:

 Majors and Flexibility

• Consider the majors you are interested in. If you think you might switch your major in the future, check if the college offers all the fields you may be interested in. Although you can transfer colleges, switching a major is easier than switching institutions.

School Expectations

• Research the requirements of the university, including GPA, standardized test scores (SAT, ACT, CLT), letters of recommendation, high school classes, and other important criteria.

 Deadlines

• These are extremely important! Mark in your calendar when the application opens (both early and regular), when it closes, and when you need to make your decision.

Campus Visits

• While not required for admission, visiting the school can be extremely beneficial. I toured three colleges this year that were all on my top list. Unfortunately (and fortunately! I am grateful to know this sooner rather than later), I was greatly disappointed by the majority of what one school had to offer. I didn’t get along well with the students, and the college clearly did not represent my values and beliefs. No school is perfect, but I knew I wouldn’t be happy there. Remember, websites can be deceiving!

Financial Aspects

• Don't forget to look into the financial aspects. Check out tuition fees, scholarship opportunities (more soon!), financial aid, and overall cost of living in the area. Knowing this information can help you make a more informed decision.

Scholarships

• Investigate scholarship opportunities. Many colleges offer merit-based and need-based scholarships that can significantly reduce the cost of attendance. Additionally, look for external scholarships offered by various organizations. It's essential to start the scholarship search early and keep track of application deadlines.

Extracurricular Activities

• Consider what extracurricular activities, clubs, or organizations the college offers. Engaging in these can enrich your college experience and provide valuable networking opportunities.

Orthodox Christian Fellowship

• Colleges have so many resources for clubs, sports, and religion. Personally, one of the most important aspects I consider in my college search is the Orthodox presence. I love when I find out services are offered on campus, carpools are arranged for church during the week, and fellowship and friendships will be made. 

Support Services

• Explore what support services are available, such as academic advising, career counseling, and tutoring. These services can be crucial for your success and well-being in college. Campus visits–and even phone calls!–can be extremely informative for all of the questions you may have. Additionally, a campus visit can give you a fuller insight to an average day of college students. You will see students studying, enjoying dinner with their friends, laughing–then you can ask yourself, “Will I be happy and thrive here, as an Orthodox Christian young woman or man?”

Location and Environment

• Think about the location of the college. Is it in a bustling city, a quiet suburb, or a rural area? Consider what environment you thrive in and where you'll feel most comfortable and safe.

Study Abroad

• Of course, not everyone is interested in traveling, so if this is irrelevant to you, don’t worry about it! But if it is, definitely take this into consideration. Depending on the college, traveling while you are earning your degree can last for a few weeks, a semester, a summer, and even up to a full year! Scholarships are also available at many Universities. 

As you embark on your college journey, remember to seek guidance through prayer and trust in God's plan for you. College is a significant step, but with faith and careful consideration, you'll find the right path. May God bless you in your search and guide you to a place where you can grow academically, spiritually, and personally. Trust in His wisdom!

Hiding in the Library: 2024 in Books

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider

Each year, I like to share a “wrap-up” of the best books I’ve read throughout the year. This year, I’m pleased to join my recommendations to those of our wonderful team of interns. We hope that if you pick up any of these books, you’ll not only enjoy them but you’ll get something meaningful from them as well! 

Picture Books:

The Three Wise Kings by Tomie dePaola

Since we pulled this book out a couple weeks ago, my toddler has been talking endlessly about “Herrod evil man, Wise Kings so happy!” With dePaola’s signature illustrations, this is a simple, lovely tale that follows the Wise Men on their journey to Bethlehem. My two favorite illustrations are a full-spread depiction of the flaming star and a tableau of the Wise Men finally greeting the Theotokos and Christ child. Recommended by Mindi

Peter, Apostle of Jesus: The Life of a Saint by Boris Grebille

This story retells the gospels from the perspective of Apostle Peter. The illustrations are sweet and approachable, and the text, while somewhat lengthy, is simple and straightforward. We enjoy singing the hymns of the Church while we look at the illustrations together. Recommended by Mindi

Children’s/Middle Grade:

Ferris by Kate diCamillo

Like all of Kate diCamillo’s books, this story touches on many of the difficult aspects of life in a profoundly hopeful way. Ferris’s younger sister is a complete menace. Even worse, their beloved grandmother is ill and sees a ghost who insists that they must light the great chandelier in the dining room. Convinced that following the ghost’s orders will help set everything to rights, Ferris undertakes this great task with the help of her eccentric uncle and virtuosically talented best friend. Recommended by Mindi

The Bletchley Riddle by Ruta Sepetys and Steve Sheinkin

Sepetys and Sheinkin are known for their meticulous work in historical fiction and nonfiction, respectively. Here they join forces to offer a fictional upper-middle grade story about the work of the Bletchley codebreakers during WWII. Escaping from being sent to live with her grandmother in the states, 14-year-old Lizzie ends up at Bletchley with her older brother, a codebreaker. Her brother Jakob wants to focus on his work to help the Allies win the war, but Lizzie is determined to uncover the truth of what happened to their mother–no matter the cost. This book would also appeal to teens and adults! Recommended by Mindi

Young Adult:

Tress of the Emerald Sea by Brandon Sanderson

When her beloved (the son of a duke) is kidnapped, Tress–a window-washer–stows away on a pirate ship to rescue him, even though she knows they can never be together. This book was so whimsical and cozy. I was immediately drawn in by Tress and Charlie’s story. I loved seeing Tress grow as a person throughout her intense journey. It’s the perfect read for fans of The Princess Bride or anyone who loves fantastical and fantastic world-building. Recommended by Caroline and Mindi

Half a Soul by Olivia Atwater

As a child, Theodora was cursed by a faerie during his unsuccessful attempt to steal her soul. With only half a soul left, she does not experience feelings such as fear or embarrassment, which often leads to awkward misunderstandings in polite society! When her curse catches the attention of the Lord Sorcier, Dora reluctantly gets pulled into the peculiar affairs of faeries.

Set in an alternate Regency England, this is a charming, fluffy, and very quick read. It’s perfect for anyone who is interested in Bridgerton or other loosely-historical romance novels but wants to avoid mature content (please note that there is some very mild language). Recommended by Mindi

Classics:

The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky

This book was a very meaningful and amazing read. There is a reason why it’s regarded as the greatest book ever written. Dostoevsky explores many different themes and attempts to answer some of life’s most difficult questions. Recommended by Caroline

Great Expectations by Charles Dickens

This novel follows the coming of age of an orphan Pip, who moves from Kent to London, England, encountering an array of characters along the way. This novel was serialized, so the story was published bit by bit, thus incentivising Dickens to highly develop even the smallest of characters and write with creative, vivid prose to keep his readers hooked. This book offers fascinating insights on the time period! Recommended by Cecilia

Northanger Abbey by Jane Austen

This is Austen’s affectionate and playful satire of Gothic literature. It follows the young, naive heroine Catherine Morland who loves reading Gothic novels. Austen is able to portray the typical Gothic themes, cliches, and psychological tensions in this clever novel. Such a fun read! Recommended by Cecilia

The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

This book might be my favorite of all time. I reread it earlier this year and remembered why I adored it. It is a witty and brilliant exploration of beauty, youth, pride, and evil. It proposes the problem of having no consequences for your actions and the effect of vanity. Recommended by Caroline

White Nights by Fyodor Dostoevsky

White Nights is about a young man who has been lonely his whole life. While walking through St. Petersburg, he meets a young girl named Nastenka who he spotted crying on a rail one night. Gradually, he gets to know Nastenka and falls in love with her. This short but meaningful story had such a big impact on me. It draws into the themes of loneliness, unrequited love, friendship, and yearning. Recommended by Caroline

Nonfiction:

Every Sigh can be a Prayer by Fr. Arsenie Papacioc (+2011)

Such an interesting read alongside Man’s Search for Meaning!

This book is a compilation of the teachings of the modern Romanian elder Fr. Arsenie, who was arrested over forty times and spent many years in Romanian communist prison. His warm, gentle voice can be heard through the pages of this book. There are several chapters concerning practical spiritual advice for family life. Fr. Arsenie emphasizes the importance of continual communion and conversation with God, not strict, mindless rules and orders. He says that “every moment is a taste of eternity and every sigh can be a prayer. This provides much greater benefit than many prayers or prostrations done mechanically.” As he lived so recently, he is able to offer knowledge of our world’s contemporary struggles. This is truly a must-read! Recommended by Cecilia

Joy to Serve by Juliana Schmemann

Although this book is primarily intended for priest’s wives, I think it is an important read for all mothers and women involved in a church ministry. Mat. Juliana walks through some of the common struggles (burnout, lack of time, child discipline) that mothers experience and encourages her readers to persevere joyfully. Recommended by Mindi

Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl

In this book, the Austrian neurologist and psychologist Viktor E. Frankl explains his psychological theory called Logotherapy, or “healing through meaning.” He survived three Nazi concentration camps, including Auschwitz and Dachau, proceeding to write this eye-opening book. He first chronicles his personal experiences and then his own “existential analysis.” I have included some of my favorite quotes below:

• “In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice.”

• “What is to give light must endure burning.”

• “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”

Recommended by Cecilia

Words of the Heart by Venerable Gerondissa Makrina Vassopoulou (+1995)

This book includes Gerondissa Makrina’s life and homilies. The first section of the book chronicles the inspiring story of her life of faithfulness. She was the daughter of pious parents and the spiritual daughter of the hesychast fathers Elder Joseph the Hesychast (+1959) and Elder Ephraim of Philotheou and Arizona (+2019). In her beautiful homilies, she speaks simply and practically. She especially holds a deep love for the Theotokos, which is inspiring to read about. You might try reading a homily or two each day. I am sure that any words from Geronidssa will inspire and help you! Recommended by Cecilia

Of course, our wrap-up wouldn’t be complete without sharing the books that we hope to read in the next year! 

Mindi:

Christy by Catherine Marshall

Kristin Lavransdatter by Sigrid Undset (Currently reading)

Feast of the Sisters by Alex Scott (a Young Adult Orthodox novel about vampires)

The Sunflower: Conforming the Will of Man to the Will of God by St. John Maximovitch

Caroline:

The Aeneid by Virgil

Demons by Fyodr Dostoevsky

The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas

Everyday Saints by Archimandrite Tikhon

Cecilia:

Middlemarch by George Eliot

Dracula by Bram Stoker

Laurus by Eugene Vodolazkin

Moby Dick by Herman Melville

East of Eden by John Steinbeck

Letters to Saint Olympia by St. John Chrysostom

What books are you and your family planning to read in 2025?

Focusing on Fasting

by the SEM Interns

In the quiet moments of our busy lives, fasting invites us into a deeper communion with God. As Orthodox Christians, the sacred tradition of fasting is a journey of the soul, a practice that transforms daily routines into opportunities for spiritual growth. Through the act of fasting, we learn to find beauty in simplicity, strength in discipline, and a profound connection with our faith. Join our interns as we share some of our favorite fasting recipes, from breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks!

Londyn: As a convert for just over two years, adjusting our usual meal plans to be fast-friendly was especially challenging for my family. It was easy to become overwhelmed and think about food even more than before fasting! However, with time and prayer, I realized that my fasting efforts could improve—I needed to focus less on meals. So, I did some quick thinking and came up with a tried-and-true list. I hope these are helpful to you in some way!

• Protein bowl: beans (pinto or black are my favorite), corn, and rice. I usually add some salsa and avocado/guacamole, too!

• Hummus and veggie platter (I also like to put the hummus on top of naan or pita bread!) I love cucumbers, bell peppers, and carrots

• Avocado toast (seed bread has extra protein)

• Peanut butter, honey, and flax seed sandwiches/toast

• Granola and almond milk

Caroline: Fasting has always been a struggle for me. It can be easy to focus on the food part and neglect the prayer part. As my mother always says, fasting without prayer is just being hungry! Instead of worrying about the food, I lean on my staple recipes.

• Couscous with beans (I love using black beans)

• Roasted chickpeas

• Black bean burgers

• Smoothie w/ vegan protein powder (I like PEscience)

• Vegan cookies (Tasty has an AMAZING recipe)

Cecilia: Fasting helps us regain balance and perspective in our lives. Abstaining from certain food products is medicine that the Church prescribes us to aid us on our spiritual journeys. It’s easy, however, to become so caught up in the dos and don’ts of fasting that we completely miss the spirit of the fast! We frantically check labels or use substitutes that taste almost like the real thing, but are just more expensive and take more time to prepare. If we try to eat more simply, we can use our extra time and money (which was not spent on food) to share with our hungry, poor, and suffering brothers and sisters. Here are some simple fasting meals you can try:

• Chili with fasting cornbread

• A simple stir fry (with tofu)

• Baked oatmeal bars:

  • Mix:

    • 2 c flour

    • 1 c brown sugar

    • ½ tsp baking soda

    • 1 tsp cinnamon

    • 1 tsp vanilla

    • 2 c oats

  • Add:

    • ¾ c oil (or could try applesauce?)

    • ¾ c water

    • ½ to 1 c cranberries or chocolate chips

    • Optional: nuts, coconut, other grains

  • Put in greased 9x13 pan

  • Bake at 350F for 30 min

• Peanut butter and jelly, avocado, or hummus on whole wheat bread

• Smoothie bowl: Blend a thick berry smoothie. Add granola, coconut flakes, honey, peanut butter, and fruit on top.

• Nachos: Lay tortilla chips out on a tin foil-covered baking sheet. Put black and refried beans (and corn, if you wish!) on top of the chips. Bake at 400F for about five minutes. Top the nachos with guacamole, salsa, etc. when out of the oven.

Nora: It’s always been difficult for my family to find good fasting recipes that we will actually enjoy, especially with us being newer to the church and my younger siblings being quite picky with certain foods. We have tried many different fasting recipes trying to figure out which ones are best for our family, so here are some recipes that we love!

• Cowboy Caviar: black beans, corn, bell peppers, tomatoes, avocado, cilantro, jalapenos, avocado oil, vinegar and lime. Chop ingredients, put in a bowl and mix in oil, vinegar and lime (add seasonings of your choice; garlic, salt, pepper, etc.)

• Rice Soup: veggie broth, rice, veggies of your choice (we use peas, carrots and celery), garlic and onion

• Breaded Cauliflower w/ dipping sauce of your choice (use plant milk to bread them instead of eggs)

• Fruit Salsa w/ cinnamon pita chips: dice up fruit very small (we use strawberries, kiwi, green apples, raspberries), combine in bowl then add some lime juice, mix and pair with cinnamon pita chips

• Lemon Garlic Pasta: pasta of your choice (we use bowties), vegan butter, garlic, lemon juice, lemon zest, spinach, salt and pepper

As we each walk this path, sharing our experiences and recipes can help make the journey a little easier and a lot more meaningful. We hope these recipes inspire you to find joy in simplicity, strength in discipline, and a deeper connection with your faith. Let’s continue to support and uplift each other through the fasting season. May our efforts bring us closer to God and to one another. Praise the Lord!

What are your favorite fasting recipes?

Is English Doomed?

by Cecilia, SEM Intern

I spent five weeks in Romania this past summer, visiting family members whom I had not seen for years. Naturally, everyone asked me what I planned to study after high school, to which I would reply, “English and the Classics.” Judging by their knitted brows and expressions of pity, I guessed that they were less than satisfied with my answer. Desperately trying to find a hope for my future, they would question, “You’re not interested in math?” I would laugh and brush it off, but I truly began to pity those deprived of the love of classical literature.

C.S. Lewis wrote an essay titled Is English Doomed?, addressing a) the notion that English can be taught by just anybody and b) the unfortunate reality that English is no longer as prestigious of a study as it once was and is in danger of disappearing. And this was in 1944! Unfortunately, the situation has only festered in our modern rejection of the world of literature that came before us and gave us the world in which we now live.

Lewis comments that “the Classics have almost been routed. Unless English, seriously studied, succeeds to their place, the English which ‘any teacher’ inculcates in the course of teaching something else will be at best the reflection of his favourite newspaper and at worst the technical jargon of his own subject.” But what does “English, seriously studied” entail? Doesn’t studying literature serve the sole purpose of entertaining and aiding appreciation? Isn’t it just a way to “have laughed at the jokes, shuddered at the tragedy, [and] wept at the pathos”? Lewis understands that this appreciation is necessary and by no means unimportant, but is not the ultimate end. The true end of literary studies is to make the student a spectator of time and existence.

If one gains wisdom from experience, how much wisdom must the literary student have, who has experienced worlds of sorrow, challenge, love, joy, embarrassment, and forgiveness? Truly, one does not only gain appreciation for life by studying literature, but actually gains the experience of having vicariously lived through it all and deeply analyzed it. Don’t we need these spectators of time to guide us and shape us? The student, by “meet[ing] the past where alone the past still lives, is taken out of the narrowness of his own age and class into a more public world.” How beautiful! How necessary!

Lewis says that English can be aptly considered “the most liberal—and liberating—discipline of the three [i.e., Literae Humaniores, English, and History].” But however liberating it may be for the individual person, I began to feel troubled by the prospect of spending years studying something only to better my own person, and not to serve those around me.

A few weeks ago, I had the privilege of meeting and speaking with the head of the Department of English at one of the colleges I am interested in attending. I took this opportunity to ask him how I could serve with an English degree and what I could offer to others. It seemed to me that the only option of service an English major was offered was teaching. However, he told me that, above all, the most valuable thing I have to give is myself. If someone could form herself to be a truly phenomenal person, then what could she not do? How could she not serve? He upheld the value that first the person must be cultivated, then some specific profession. Universities too often factory-produce adults who have deep knowledge of one discipline, but no knowledge of themselves.

He therefore asserted that if someone could shape herself through the reading of the Great Books, then she could have a truly tremendous impact on those around her. Not only would her character be influential, but she would also be able to perform any task required of her. The study of English, especially in a Classical Liberal Arts environment, puts the student in a position to effectively approach any task or problem, thus being able to do whatever is required of her. So, my question is no longer “How could I serve?”, but rather “How could I not serve?!”

So, although slightly ridiculed by my extended family, I plan to study English, which, as Lewis points out, very well may be doomed. If the question is, however, whether I myself as an English student will be doomed, I am determined to answer in the negative. As Lewis lays out, “the true aim of literary studies is to lift the student out of his provincialism by making him ‘the spectator,’ if not of all, yet of much, ‘time and existence.’” What more could one want?

Gaining College Credit in High School

by Juliana, Summer ‘24 Intern

For many homeschooled students, the prospect of college after high school is one shrouded in doubt, anxiety, and very realistic financial concerns. The potential culture shock inherent in going from being a teenager on the somewhat-sheltered scale to becoming a college student is a bit scary. But more important is the knowledge that most four-year universities will require you to shell out ridiculous amounts of money for basic courses like English and Biology, even if they haven’t got any direct relevance to your major. In this article, I will expound upon the possibilities open to homeschoolers for obtaining college credit while still in high school and give some advice based on my personal college-in-highschool experience.

Let me start with AP courses. They are probably the best-known of all the options out there, due to their popularity. The end-of-year exams have both free-response and multiple-choice questions (the language exams often have speaking and listening portions, and the computer science exams, naturally, have a programming portion, but those are in the minority). In order to obtain credit, you will need to 1) take and pass the course at an accredited school (online or brick-and-mortar), 2) sign up for your exam on time (usually by October; if you call your local public school, they will often allow you to take the exam there. If no students there are taking it, you can offer to pay the proctoring fee), 3) show up for and take the exam, and 4) pass with a 3 or higher.

A 3 is generally considered a passing score, although some colleges will only accept a 4 or 5 for credit purposes. Regardless of your score (or whether you even took the exam!), having an AP course on your high school transcript is indicative of high performance and motivation, as the entire course is college-level material (usually, one college semester spread out over two high school semesters). It also is an example of how Exams. Are. Your. Best. Friend. (I say this a lot, so prepare to read it many, many more times!) There is absolutely no way for a doting parent to give you an A and a passing score of 4 on your AP Biology exam just because they felt like you “put in lots of effort,” or “deserved the credit.” It simply cannot happen. When a college (or anyone you want to impress, for that matter) sees that A and a 4, they know that it represents the willingness to put in hours of hard work, as well as a strong work ethic and good test-taking skills. There’s no way to fake it. Homeschoolers’ achievements are often doubted. Yes, it’s gotten better since the ‘80s, when my mom and her sister were asked basic math questions in public, but many people are still very skeptical. Having a solid grade in literally anything from a trusted institution (whether it’s an accredited school, the College Board, or any university) cannot be made up and will help you tremendously.

But I digress – can you tell I’m very passionate about this subject?

The next set of exams I want to tackle are the CLEP exams. These are mostly multiple choice (a few also include an essay portion) exams that, like the APs, are offered by the College Board. Most public schools do not offer them, but because you can study at home (at your own pace!) and take the exam itself at your local community college, they are amazing for homeschoolers. For no money, you can obtain an exam prep book and a video course from Modern States Alliance, a nonprofit that helps college students finish their freshman year for free. If you finish all the videos and exercises with a high enough grade, Modern States will cover the testing fee (tip: there are 5 options for each question and you get 5 attempts, so you should be good! Just, you know, remember what your previous answers were). You will have to pay a proctoring fee, though: in my experience, it’s usually between $15 and $40. CLEP exams are great because you can treat them like the final exam for a course that you did entirely at home. For instance, when I was doing US History, my parents were really the only instructors. They picked out a textbook, had me take notes & answer comprehension questions, and picked out supplemental reading. Once I neared the end of the school year, I worked with the Modern States Alliance book to fill in any gaps in my knowledge, took practice tests, and was able to walk into the testing center and pass the exam. It’s awesome if you want to make your history / biology / psychology course fun and interesting with an added layer of credibility (and, of course, avoid harmful and/or radical moral ideas that might be pushed in some classrooms). Plus, you might get some gen-ed courses out of the way! Win win.

I should note here that many four-year colleges do not accept CLEP exams; I think this might be in part due to the fact that they are mostly just multiple choice, and thus, without the free response portion, are inherently easier. However, most community colleges (more on those later!) do accept them. And, even if a college won’t accept your, say, CLEP Biology exam, it’s a great thing to have on your transcript, and says a lot about you that you passed that exam in high school. Like I said: Exams are your friend.

The third method for obtaining college credit in high school is DE, or Dual Enrollment. This is a fancy way of saying that you take a class through a university that counts as a high school class as well. So basically – double the credit!

There are two main ways to do this. The first is to enroll in an online class from a school that has a partnership with an accredited university. Online schools like the CLRC, the Potter’s School, and Veritas Press will sometimes team up with a college so that a class you take through them also counts as a college level class through that specific university. For instance, I took an English class through Veritas Press, which collaborates with Cairn University. Once I’d finished, I had, for all intents and purposes, completed 1) a high school English course, and 2) an junior-level English class at Cairn University.

The second way to obtain dual enrollment credit is to enroll in a class directly through a university. Yes, that’s right, you’ll be going to a real classroom, with a real teacher, and classmates in real life! I know it sounds scary, but honestly, take it from me: You’ll be fine. Some states have programs where homeschooled students are allowed to take courses at local universities, but this is not universal; check to see what is available in your area. However, many community colleges allow homeschooled students to take classes there – often for free or a discounted price. This is a really nice deal if you want to get the credit, but don’t want to do every single course at home.

All of the on-ground community college classes I have taken so far have followed the format of 1-2 days on campus per week. This means that you have your lecture/lab/exam/ whatever else you’re doing, receive your assignments for the following meeting, and disperse. If you were homeschooled for all or much of your academic life, this probably sounds rather familiar. As I had self-studied and done online classes for all of high school, the academic transition to community college was not too difficult.

The following link leads to a list of all the resources I’ve mentioned in this article, information on several online schools based on my personal experience, and some other resources you might find useful. Please do note that this is anecdotal evidence; it might not hold true for you, but then again, it might be helpful. Also – please be aware that I haven’t personally checked all of the content on these websites, so if you come across anything inappropriate or blasphemous, I don’t condone it – do avoid it!

I will update this list as I have time and come across more potential resources.

Get the list here!

Creating a Culture of Life

by Londyn, Saint Emmelia Ministries Intern

How often do we feel overwhelmed in life? Not only by the endless tasks, obligations, and even things we love to do, but by how our world seems to be full of things that could be done better? Something that has been on my mind a lot lately is the pro-life movement. I recently found out several women in my life are pregnant, and it fills my heart with so much joy! However, it seems almost daily I am bombarded with heartbreaking news from those who don’t support life in the womb. So my question stands: how can we do this better? How can I support the life of babies (while still being a few years from having a family of my own) and inspire others to do the same?

Well, the first thing I can turn to is caring for my siblings. This is pretty expected—I have a big, beautiful family, with three sisters, two brothers, and the littlest one so young we still don’t know if the baby is a brother or sister! What a blessing this is—from my young sibling who is yet to be born, up to my brother who will be fourteen in a few months, I have a lot of opportunities to support the life of the young. But what about outside of the family? How can we support the women who are growing beautiful life inside them?

Some of the first things that come to mind are simply being there for these women: showing love and support locally–such as taking a meal to a woman and her family–donating to local charities (or the large pro-life charities in America, too!), and volunteering directly at pregnancy centers. In our parishes, we can support pregnant women, too. This can include organizing prayer groups, and/or bringing a meal every once in a while to the woman and her family.

I bought a pro-life shirt off Etsy a few months ago, and it is my absolute favorite! I have gotten several compliments on it—in places you’d least expect, too. It is beautiful to be able to make a stranger smile with a reminder that life is precious and we should support it—from the young babies in the womb up to the elderly and wise.

Consider supporting EveryLife, by either donating or purchasing diapers! This is an amazing company that is dedicated to providing essential items for babies and their families. You can buy diapers and wipes and bring them to your local pregnancy center. I know from experience they are always happy to receive a smile and a package of diapers. Recently, I had the opportunity to volunteer at my local pregnancy center. I spent two hours organizing diapers and swapping out the winter and summer clothes in the boutique. I teared up a little bit, knowing the good that these women do for other women was in that exact room I stood in. I prayed continuously, so grateful that the small actions I made could be added up by other women and men by showing love, for the mother, the baby, and the father! Volunteering at the pregnancy center was a beautiful reminder of the impact we can have on our community. It’s not just about the physical tasks we perform, but the love and care we show to others.

In addition to volunteering, there are many other ways to support the pro-life movement. You can participate in pro-life events and marches, such as those organized by OCLife of America, and engage in respectful conversations with those who have different beliefs. Educating yourself and others about the importance of protecting life is crucial. Share information from reputable pro-life organizations. Being pro-life is about more than just opposing abortion; it’s about promoting a generation of life that respects and values every human being, from conception to natural death. It’s about supporting mothers and families, advocating for policies that protect life, and working towards a society where every life is cherished. People of all ages have a unique opportunity to inspire others and make a difference. Your passion and dedication can encourage others to join the movement and support life in their own ways. Remember, every small action counts, and together, we can create a world where every life is valued and protected. Supporting the pro-life movement is a beautiful and fulfilling journey. Whether it’s through volunteering, donating, or simply showing love and support to those around you, every effort makes a difference. Let’s continue to stand together for life and inspire others to do the same.

“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, and before you were born, I sanctified you. I established you a prophet to the nations.” -Jeremiah 1:5

5 Saint Emmelia Resources You Might Not Know About

by Mindi Popovich-Schneider, Saint Emmelia Ministries Assistant

Since you’re reading this, you probably know something about our work at Saint Emmelia Ministries, whether it’s our conferences, online discussion groups, or the Saint Macrina Lecture Series. But here are five more resources you might not know about!

1. Our Spiritual Advisors. This board is made up of one priest from each Antiochian archdiocese, as well as a ROCOR and OCA priest (don’t worry, we’re working on the rest of the jurisdictions too). These wonderful priests are knowledgable about homeschooling and are available to help you connect with families and resources in your archdiocese/area.

2. Hymn Study. I see a LOT of parents asking how to make Ambleside Online’s music study fit better with our faith. Of course, we’ve got you covered! This offers a list of suggested hymns (sheet music included) to study throughout the course of the school year.

3. An Orthodox Morning Basket. Another question I see a lot, especially from families who are new to Orthodoxy, is how to incorporate the Faith into the school day. Using the Charlotte Mason concept of “the morning basket,” this guide offers many different suggestions so that you can choose what fits your family’s specific needs!

4. Scholarships/Grants. By God’s grace and the generosity of donors, we’re so blessed to be able to offer scholarships. The Saint Basil Scholarship is specifically for clergy families to use at St. Raphael School or Classical Learning Resource Center (St. Athanasius already has one set up from the same funding source). The Saint Theosebia Scholarship is open to any homeschool family for any education-related need. The Homeschool Co-Op Grant supports any Orthodox co-op and can be used for a wide variety of needs. Finally, the St. Gregory Merit Scholarship is awarded to one high school senior each year, though all applicants receive a certificate and commencement tassel.

5. Book Recommendations. Our book lists are extensive and constantly being updated! Make sure to check them out to get ideas for your or your kids’ next read!

We have so much more to offer than this, including some things that will be launched very soon! (Hint: it has to do with co-ops!) But we want to hear from you: what resources do YOU need the most?